静静地相依
Forever Love
姥姥姥爷是经历了抗战、饥荒、文革、改革开放等新中国所有巨大变革的一代。艰苦的日子，可怕的日子，物质丰富的日子，每一种剧变都能让人的心态和人对世界的认识产生根本地变化，而两人始终不离不弃，这大概是爱最好的证明了。
在我高中的时候，姥爷不幸得了癌症。他虽然对此有些许绝望，但是更多是想着怎么不让姥姥难过。他积极配合治疗的同时哄姥姥开心，最终一切好转度过了鬼门关。有趣的是，这一次经历并没有像文学作品或者电视剧中爱人死而复生、失而复得那样，生活像被蜜罐泡了一样甜。两人该吵架还是吵架，该自己玩还是自己玩。
生命最终会走向尽头，对于已经八十多的两人来说，这一点更加明确。有时候不管谁在嘴边挂一句，另一个人都要骂。我看得出来，这样的骂并不是因为迷信，而是一种复杂的感情，大概总结起来就是：
天命是要认的，但是只要还在，就好好一起生活吧。
My Grandparents have experienced all big changes in China such as the War of Resistance, famine, the Great Cultural Revolution, reform and opening up . Although each period can deeply change people's world view, they stay together till now. Perhaps this is the best proof of love.
Unfortunately, my grandpa got cancer when I was in high school. Though frustrating, he received treatment positively and cheered my grandma up all the time. Eventually he got througt and healed. What interesting was that their life remained as usual--sometimes argued with each other, sometimes stayed alone rather than a honeymoon-like life.
Life will eventually come to end, they konw that well. One will blame the other when he talk about that. But clearly, that blame is not because of superstition but some complicate feelings. In one sentence, that is:
We can't control God's will, but as long as we are together, enjoy our life.
